Wednesday, January 7, 2009

10 Muharram 1430 Hijrah

It was my birthday... If follow Islamic Calendar la... Hmmmmm... my 7-years-boyfriend-now-becomes-my-1-year-best-friend bought me dinner. We didn't plan to celebrate actually. I only told him when we met just now. Yeah, knowing gentlemen, almost all of them have amnesia when it comes to remember important dates. So ladies, don't get overly hurt. Just play our roles to ring them a bell (",)

We had a light dinner since both of us are on diet now *new year resolution*. Suddenly I have amnesia too when I try to remember how many times this resolution has been repeated (",) So we shared every portion of our dinner...



The tuna sandwiches....



The homemade mashed potato...



My favourite Ipoh white coffee, his favourite jasmine tea and my manggo yogurt birthday cake...



He said "Your heart and strawberry are identical. Sometimes sweet and sometimes sour..."
I said "Life is a balance between sweet and sour..."
He said "...and the latter is growing dominance recently..."
I said "...and perhaps I veer into more complicated territory lately... "


He said "You are losing your life again... I bet one day you will come back to me..."
I said "I prefer to lose my life than you lose your future..."



Where else we had dinner other than our favourite Lily Cenario Cafe. I missed Yanti, the sweet waitress who always welcomed us with her innocent smile. She has gone back to Jawa, Indonesia. Now LCC has Cambodian waiters.

Dr. H and I now are best friends. Hard to believe but that's the way we are now. I know he loves me so much and really cares for me. He truly respects me. That makes him something special. Not only that. Everytime I cry, he'll make sure that I will laugh again before I go back home. It's been a year now after we were unable to perform a miracle to get married... and I accept the fact that we meant to be best friends only. I loved him and I still care for him...

17 comments:

Naimboey said...

selamat hari jadi

In The Nite Garden said...

Timakasih naimboey (",)

Mighty Jacksparrow said...

happy birthday, you, and as well a very warm hello.

skatype said...

salam singgh..
thnks cos drop my blog..
hepy besday..

In The Nite Garden said...

Mighty - Thx and Hello too (",)

Skatype - Terima kasih krn sudi singgah di blog saya and thx for the wish too.. saya menangis membaca blog saudara. saya memahami apa yg saudara lalui krn saya juga pernah melalui saat getir itu dulu...

adzani adnan said...

wah... mnaariknya tmpt tu..
ktner nya?
bole bwk kwn2..
huhuhuh

Benrauf said...

happy belated belated belated birthday :)

monkibizniz said...

slmt ari jadi..

nway kadang2 saye terpikir gak..ape y penting nyer ari jadi nih..sbb saye sndr slalu kecewa ble org tak ingt ari jadi saye..at last, i came to realize it's just a date for me..no more than other 364days in the year calendar..itu pada saye la..just so saye tak wishing n hoping sgt..hehe..

my style of thinking, some people call is pesimistic..but for me, it's more like menjaga hati..ape salahnye..kan..at least i wont blame others for their ignorance..

:)

anntaj said...

hapy besday;;;

In The Nite Garden said...

Ad - Mmg menarik. kerusi, meja, cat sume kaler putih. plg chantek ada satu lampu kristal yg tergantung kat dlm tu. it's at jln 19/29 PJ. lg satu all foods there are MSG free (",)

Benrauf - thx dude ;p

monki - frankly, seumur hidup sy tak penah pun celebrate birthday coz org tak tau bila my birthday. sy cuma bgtau my best fren ni sorang jelah. slalunye kami juz pi dinner and only add a slice of cake jer. Sy lg suka klau org lain tak ingat when my birthday is.

Cuma thn lepas 1st time my colleagues celebrated my birthday. tu pun my oficemates kt my new workplace yg arranged my birthday lunch coz mmg dah menjadi budaya mrk kat situ utk celebrate birthday for every teammates.

Actually mengingati hari jadi tu ialah kita sendiri mengingati hari kita dijadikan sebagai seorang manusia.. dan tugas kita untuk menilai samada hidup kita hari ini adakah masih lg bergelar insan atau sebaliknya.. ia boleh dilakukan walaupun tanpa kek, tanpa party, tanpa hadiah, tanpa kawan2, tanpa birthday wish, tanpa kehadiran org tersyg...

To me setiap ucapan harijadi dr org lain adalah tanda ingatan. birthday cuma satu hari saja.. kasih sayang mrk pada kita selama 364 hari itu yg lebih bermakna pd kita..

Annataj - thx my dear for the wish and timakasih jua kerana sudi singgah di blog saya ;p

Hanna J. Potter said...

oh thanks a lot for following me! =) your writings are good, too. i bookmarked you! *^^* i think your writings sounds mature..i rarely find ppl who write like you..so i' stalking you now! thanks again!

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Sky lite said...

Test

monkibizniz said...

btul2..y plg pntg those 364days in which they love us without having to find a reason..

daSetan_7 said...

Happy belated besdey :P

In The Nite Garden said...

Hanna - U're welcome my dear. I'm flattered (",)

I love reading other people's blogs. I believe that for every entry people make, it will be embraced by the mixture of emotion and creativity. In every single word and in every single picture, it describes the inner parts of a human being. As my eyes are reading it, my heart is also listening to it.

I guess every wrinkle that I have on my face now would count my maturity ;p As my age is in ascending order, I hope my rationality is not in descending order..

Skylite - sound check, sound check hehehehe

monki - True! True love! (",) Hey, Benrauf is a nice guy, kan? ;p

Dasetan - Makacheh ;p

daSetan_7 said...

Buweeeekkk :P

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